We make decisions all day long every day; from the moment we wake up to the moment we fall asleep. Some decisions we don’t think about because they have become automatic behaviors and habits – they are the choices that we don’t put much thought into: what we eat for breakfast, what route we take […]



It doesn’t matter what you do in life, you probably spend a tremendous amount of time talking. Most of us are pretty good at that form of communication. More important than talking though, is the time we should spend listening – and especially reading body language, gauging responses, and sorting through all of the outside […]



Life is certainly one thing: uncertain. Just when we think we can settle in for a minute, something comes along and tries to unsettle us. Just when we think we have a grasp of something, it can slip through our hands or be ripped from our tight clenches. Just as we climb the highest mountain […]

No Regrets


Contemplating the subject of regret can be viewed from two overriding perspectives; whether you regret the things you do and say, or whether you regret the things you don’t do and say. I don’t know which is the right perspective – and it might depend on the subject matter – but I do think it’s […]


Ben Hur

I’ve been reminded recently about what friendship means. More accurately, I’ve been reminded about what friendship means to me. What does it mean to you? If we were to all write a short definition of the meaning of friendship, collectively we couldn’t conjure up a comprehensive and exact explanation of the concept. The reason for […]